What is SUDEP?
SUDEP stands for “Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy”. It is a category of uncommon sudden death, used when a person with epilepsy dies unexpectedly, without apparent cause. In a typical case of SUDEP, an otherwise healthy person with active epilepsy dies suddenly, unobserved. It is not a condition or disease, but rather the category to which these types of unexplained deaths are assigned.

In Their Memory: Personal Stories of Love, Loss, and SUDEP Awareness.
In Memory of Victoria Mercer: A Life Lived Fully
Victoria “Vicky” Mercer was larger than life. A talented graphic designer, published author, and passionate advocate, she lived with creativity, intensity, and a deep love for life. Diagnosed with epilepsy at just 12 years old, Vicky faced the challenges of managing her condition while pursuing her dreams and connecting with others through her work and volunteering.
Vicky passed away from SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy) in 2021, at just 24. Her mother, Carol, first learned about SUDEP from the coroner, leaving her heartbroken and asking why her family had never been told about this risk. Today, Carol shares Vicky’s story because she believes patients and families deserve honest conversations about SUDEP.
On what would have been Vicky’s 25th birthday, Carol invited her friends to celebrate her life, expecting around 40 people. Nearly 150 came, a testament to the extraordinary impact Vicky had on those around her. Carol hopes that by sharing Vicky’s story, more families will learn about SUDEP and that no one will have to ask, as she did, why they were never told.
In Memory of Grace: A Life Guided by Compassion
Grace Peebles was a generous, joyful, and compassionate young woman who believed in kindness, empathy, and caring for others. Whether supporting her sisters, caring for neglected animals, or helping those in need, Grace made people feel loved. At just 23, she was pursuing her education in health sciences and emergency management, with dreams of working alongside Indigenous communities and making a meaningful difference in the world.
Grace passed away from SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy) on April 4, 2021, just months after her epilepsy diagnosis. Her parents, Constance and Dana, now honour her memory by advocating for greater SUDEP awareness and encouraging families to have open conversations with healthcare professionals about seizure risks and ways to reduce them.
Though Grace’s life was far too short, her kindness continues to inspire those who knew her. Her family looks for ways to create “moments of grace” – small acts of compassion that carry her spirit forward, especially when supporting others who need love and care. They encourage others to ask questions, talk to their healthcare team about SUDEP, and never underestimate the lasting impact of a life guided by kindness.
In Memory of Stephanie Tardivo: A Family’s Call for Awareness
Stephanie was a vibrant and magnetic presence who had a passion for life. She was a force in ice hockey and on the baseball diamond. She had a love of cooking and shared her culinary creations online. Professionally, she was a dedicated Sales manager loved by all. Beloved daughter, sister, and friend to many. After experiencing her first seizures as a teenager, she went nearly 17 years without a seizure before they returned in 2022. The seizures greatly impacted her life. With support from Epilepsy Toronto, she was rebuilding her life with the energy and spirit she was known for.
Stephanie passed away from SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy) in February 2025. Her parents, Tessie and Oliver, first heard about SUDEP from the coroner after her death. They were left grieving their daughter while asking why no one had told them about this risk.
Today, Tessie and Oliver share Stephanie’s story to encourage greater awareness, better access to epilepsy care, and honest conversations about seizure risks. As Tessie says, “Families need to be told about risks like SUDEP. Silence doesn’t protect anyone.”
In Memory of Brendan: A kind and loving man
Brendan was a kind, independent and creative young man who lived life on his own terms. He loved music, the city, and the people around him. After earning his degree, he made Toronto his home and built a life doing what he loved working in restaurants, playing music, and surrounding himself with friends.
Brendan passed away at 28 from SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy). His mother, Maria, now advocates for greater awareness, encouraging open conversations within the community and with healthcare professionals about the risks caused by alcohol, lack of sleep, missed medications and steps that can be taken to reduce seizures.
Though his life was far too short, Brendan’s kindness, creativity, and spirit continue to inspire those who knew him. His story reminds us that behind every diagnosis is a person, and that honest conversations about epilepsy and SUDEP can help protect others.
In honour of Brendan, and all those we’ve lost, we can create a future where more people are informed, supported, and never alone.
Steps to Help Reduce Risk
1. Work towards the best possible seizure control
Having fewer seizures, particularly generalized tonic-clonic (convulsive) seizures, is the most important known way to reduce SUDEP risk. If seizures continue despite treatment, speak with your doctor or neurologist about reviewing your care and exploring other treatment options.
2. Take medication as prescribed
Take anti-seizure medication consistently and follow your prescribed treatment plan. Do not stop or change your medication without medical guidance. If you experience side effects, have difficulty taking medication regularly, or have concerns about your treatment, talk with your healthcare team.
3. Prioritize sleep and understand your seizure triggers
Lack of sleep can contribute to seizures for some people. Try to maintain a regular sleep routine and discuss any sleep difficulties or possible seizure triggers with your healthcare provider.
4. Talk openly about alcohol and other substances
Alcohol and recreational drugs may affect seizure control, sleep, and medication management. Ask your healthcare team how these may affect your individual risk and what precautions are appropriate for you.
5. Discuss nighttime seizures and safety
Seizures during sleep may increase SUDEP risk for some people. If you experience nighttime seizures, ask your healthcare team whether a nighttime safety plan, seizure-alert device, or additional support could be appropriate.
6. Make a seizure response plan
Help family members, friends, roommates, and other trusted people learn seizure first aid and when to seek emergency help. Keep your seizure response plan up to date and make sure the people supporting you know what to do.
7. Keep the conversation going
Ask your doctor or neurologist about SUDEP, your personal risk factors, and steps you can take to reduce risk. If you are still having seizures, have experienced a change in seizure patterns, or are concerned about your treatment, let your healthcare team know.
Remember: SUDEP can happen even when someone is receiving care and managing their epilepsy. These steps are not a guarantee of prevention, and risk varies from person to person. The goal is to help you make informed decisions, access appropriate care, and feel supported in managing your epilepsy.
This information is for general education and is not a substitute for personalized medical advice. Speak with your healthcare team about your individual circumstances.
SUDEP FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What causes SUDEP?
Research indicates that there is likely more than one explanation for SUDEP. According to one theory, electrical discharges in the brain may change the electrical status of the heart, affecting its rhythm. Another theory is that breathing is stopped by a seizure. In either case, a post-mortem examination reveals no anatomical cause of death.
What are the chances of dying from SUDEP?
The risk remains uncertain, and more research is badly needed. It has been estimated that approximately one in 1,000 people with epilepsy will die of SUDEP each year.
However, the true number of deaths due to SUDEP is unknown and is likely higher than these estimates. This is primarily because:
- The identification of SUDEP is poor due to lack of awareness;
- Anatomic findings (e.g. tongue/lip bite) implicating epilepsy as a cause or contributor to the death are commonly lacking;
- Autopsies may not be conducted, which are vital for making the diagnosis by exclusion required for accurate determination of SUDEP, and;
- There are challenges to, and inconsistencies in, the investigation and certification/recording of these deaths.
Could SUDEP happen to me?
When people with epilepsy are told about SUDEP, they ask, “Will it happen to me?” The chances of dying from it are remote. Some people may be more at risk than others, especially young people aged 20-40 with tonic-clonic (grand mal) seizures which are not fully controlled by medication. Not taking medication correctly or regularly, being alone during seizures and using alcohol or street drugs may also be factors.
What can I do to lower the risk of SUDEP?
The highest risk factor for SUDEP is poorly controlled tonic-clonic seizures. Achieving better seizure control is important to reducing the risk of SUDEP.
Some ways to achieve this are by taking one’s medication regularly, tracking one’s seizures to better understand personal triggers and being able to recognize unusual seizure activity.
SUDEP occurs most frequently at night and there is some evidence that room-sharing or monitoring devices may reduce the risk.
Should people with epilepsy live differently because of SUDEP?
It is important for people with uncontrolled epilepsy to balance the awareness of their slightly increased risk of death with the need to live as normal a life as possible. There are usually very few things that people with epilepsy cannot do. However, anything and everything they can do to safely manage and reduce their seizures can reduce the risk of SUDEP.
Do doctors have a role to play with regard to SUDEP?
The risk of SUDEP, while relatively small, is nevertheless real. We believe it should be discussed openly by doctors with patients and their families. Direct and reasoned discussion may improve compliance with medication and lifestyle regimens. It may also prevent the family from feeling betrayed by the doctor should a sudden death ever occur. “Why weren’t we told?” is a common reaction of family members bereaved by SUDEP.
In some cases of SUDEP, individuals are found to have sub-therapeutic blood levels of anti-epileptic drugs. It is prudent to try to predict those who might be most susceptible to SUDEP, particularly people aged 20 to 40 with poorly controlled tonic-clonic seizures. It may be beneficial for these patients to be monitored by their physician with increased frequency during this period and compliance assessed more frequently.
If a SUDEP death should occur, we believe it is important that it be formally identified as SUDEP. In addition to information, families bereaved by SUDEP need to be offered a compassionate ear and grief counselling.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
Local Support
Bereaved Families of Ontario (BFO) is a province-wide organization dedicated to bereavement support through self-help and mutual aid at no cost to those in need.
The Epilepsy Learning Hub, hosted by Sick Kids, features an page about SUDEP.
Global Community Support
Epilepsy Foundation (United States)
A source for additional resources, webinars, education, and support for those impacted by SUDEP.
The SUDEP Institute (via Epilepsy Foundation)
The SUDEP Institute drives and supports research into the causes of SUDEP and ways to prevent it.
An organization that focuses their efforts on preventing SUDEP, supporting those impacted, and sponsoring SUDEP research and education.
Partners Against Mortality in Epilepsy (PAME)
PAME is a collaboration with the goal of improving understanding of and working to prevent epilepsy-related forms of mortality, including suicide, accidents, status epilepticus and with a strong focus on SUDEP.
An organization in the USA founded by parents in honour of their son Danny working towards advancing public awareness, education and disclosure between medical professionals and families impacted by Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy (SUDEP).
North American SUDEP Registry (NASR)
They encourage accurate recognition and reporting of SUDEP-related deaths, and to provide researchers with a body of data that will result in a greater understanding of SUDEP, its causes, and possible means of reducing patient risk.
Watch a webinar on ‘Understanding Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy” by WebMD Ignite.
ORGAN / TISSUE DONATION FOR SUDEP
Organ and tissue donation for transplantation or towards disease research can help save someone’s life. Learn more about the urgent need for tissue donations for vital research towards the prevention of epilepsy-related death.
See the Person: In Memory of Grace
Grace Peebles was all that her name implied; she was full of care and love. She was a generous, witty, and joyful young woman poised to set out into the world and use her strength and abilities to help others. She believed: that we all need to be kinder to each other; that compassion and empathy should be the foundation of our actions; and that supporting the most vulnerable among us was the only way forward for us all. Read Grace’s story here.
See the Person: Remembering Nebyu
When Anna Argaw’s son, Nebyu Taddese, was diagnosed with epilepsy it came as a shock. He was in Grade 10 and his seizures appeared suddenly. Even more shocking was his unexpected death from SUDEP only a few years later at the age of 19. Read Anna and Nebyu’s story here.


